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Sunday 2 November 2008

A hypocrite?

hyp-o-crite
1 : a person who puts on a false appearance of virtue or religion
2 : a person who acts in contradiction to his or her stated beliefs or feelings
How do you feel when someone accused you of being a hypocrite? I was stunned. A bit blur too. What exactly did I do to make people think that, I wonder? Maybe I am a hypocrite. Then again why do you care? Hahaha... So does everyone else. According to the definition above it seems that everyone else is guilty as I am. Who in their right mind would want to show how they exactly feels all the time? Would you actually say to a person you hate their guts just to avoid being a hypocrite? I know I won't. I just keep my big mouth shut and get on with my blissful life.
Anyway, someone asked me a quite interesting question. How can I be so content with my life? Does that sound right? Hehehe... It took me a few days to actually realized that I am happy with my life. I am definitely content. I don't really remember the last time I cried myself to sleep. After 3 years of being a housewife, I have finally accept it. Ironically, Hubby just asked me to get a good-paying job within this month. Hahaha... The thought of going into the rat-race definitely bugs me. But after a few days of applying for jobs online, I have become a little bit excited. Hahaha... calm down. I haven't even got any interview offer yet.
Last year someone asked me have I ever had any disagreement with Hubby. She was trying to ask have I ever had a fight with Hubby. Of course we fight! It's just a matter of how you handle it. If you tend to dwell on the fact he's not the perfect guy for you, then your marriage is doomed. However, if you remember how his quirkiness stole your heart and turned you into the biggest jelly, then the sacrifices you make could well be worth all the pain. Just remember we're not that perfect either.
If you think I have the perfect marriage. Yes I believe do.

3 comments:

deathBerry said...

jelly jelly jellabies!

(just for the sake of leaving a comment.... ahaks :P)

saimaria said...

:) yes u r right...anis + azli is a perfect couple... :) semoga anda ber2 bertambah perfect sehingga ke akhir hayat...

i like your sentence "However, if you remember how his quirkiness stole your heart and turned you into the biggest jelly, then the sacrifes you makes could well be worth all the pain. " boleh jadi pedoman sepanjang zaman ni :)

Zana Fauzi said...

I like that sentence too. :)

'Hypocrite' for me is an overrated word. School kids use it all the time, people would mostly write in their profiles "I'm a simple person, I love my parents, I love my life, I hate hypocrite people" to the extend sometimes I think, "Do they by any chance encounter SO many hypocritical people in their lives that it had to be the main concern of their lives?"

I don't think you're hypocritical, not because we're friends or anything. The Anis I know voiced out her disapproval right there and then.